Baseline Report Anger Management as a Behavioral

They are on the floor in front of his bed and if he inadvertent kicks one over it will be in my carpet. The bath dwell is accustomed to his room, less than eight feet away. He took egress doughnuts from a drawer in his captains bed, which was open and I could see all(prenominal) kinds of snacks in there (no solid food is allowed in the bedroom) and was watching TV with come out a assistance in the creative activity. honest clothes that were placed on a table in his room on sunlight were still non piece away, soda stands were fable on the floor and the playpen for the dog smelled exchangeable urine.I went off, heavy him that l cant do this both much you dont friend me hold back care of the house and bambino level off yourself. You are lazy, stupid, and hateful, you dont clean up after yourself or even clean yourself and I feel like I am losing control. I start to cry, continue screaming, waving my hands and he just looks at me like a deer caught in head lights an d occasionally throws both(prenominal) curse words my way. Slam his door and go sit on the couch to calm down. He doesnt come along out of his room until I go upstairs and we avoid each other the rest of the day.Intensity a 3 and lasted 9 minutes. Thursday 11/13 (715-726 a. M. ) Milk is oddover out all night again and ice cream is melted all over my counter again. Constant occurrence despite put up signs in bright yellow and orange in the kitchen to put away food in the freezer or refrigerator when holy with it. I drop addressed this more times than I can count over the last three years. I went into his room, turned on the light and began to ask him if he was just stupid or if he was doing these things deliberately to retard me off. He said he wasnt trying to tick me off merely just forgot.Then he said, Here we go again, some other lovely day. I started screaming that I dont plan to have old age like this, I dont want to have age like this but when you keep owing stupid things that tick me off, we will have days like this. He told me to shut the up which made me angrier and then I told him that I wish he would go live in a home because hes driving me crazy. Then he said he was sorry, that he didnt mean it but it happens all the time and am so commonplace of dealing with the insanity of his progressing dementia and physical problems on top of his bipolar disorder.Unfortunately, I tell him that when I am having a tantrum, which I do bring to pass is very unfair since he did not ask for any of these diagnoses. I pray for strength, I pray for understanding, pray for patience all of the time. Intensity was a (2) and the tantrum lasted 11 minutes. Friday 1 1/14 There Were Zero TA entrust in the observation period. Michael got up at a reasonable time, ate breakfast, took his meds, did the dishes and cleaned the kitty litter and managed to be considerate and helpful. I was very grateful today for the peace. Saturday 11/15 p. M. I yelled at Michael to larn out of bed and help walk the dogs. I had been calling him since 345, letting him k nowadays that he required to substantiate dressed to help. I screamed at him to suck out of bed and move his butt and help me. I said, You stay in bed all day without a care in the world and need some alp. You did no chores today and need you to soak up up, get dressed and stop pretending that you are my child. I am sick of having to ask you every day for help when you know what needs to get done. NOW GET UP He did get up begrudgingly, as if was annoying him. Intensity was a (2) and the tantrum lasted 5 minutes.Saturday 11/15 (640-720 p. M. ) I was in a great deal of trouble oneself from the car adventure on Monday, November 1 20th and Michael came in asking me what was making for dinner. Was lying on the couch with an ice hire on my shoulder and a heating pad on my back. I told him that he loud have to fix himself something tonight because was so sore from getting a chiropractic adjustm ent. He started to complain that there was cypher to eat (there was plenty to eat, just nothing he wanted to make). All this time he did not come out to ask me if I wanted or needed anything so I threw a full blown tantrum.I started screaming at him, atomic number 18 you stupid, do you not see the heating pad and ice lead? Do you not authorise was in a car accident and could have been killed? Cant you do something for me for once? My voice rose to the level that I call back the people down the block could have heard me. I got myself Off the couch and in reality got in his face (l would like to believe it was the pain killers I was on but I have reacted like this in the past when I was over tired or not feeling good) and continued to scream how useless he was and that he needed to find another place to live.He just looks at me and goes blah, blah, blah, Im not way out anywhere, and then I accelerate into psycho mode telling him that cant take the fact that when I am sick he w ill do nothing for me but the rest of the time do everything for him. I am not rational at this moment because if I was, I would realize that am wasting my breath. The more he acts like he doesnt care that look like a lunatic, waving my arms and distorting my face into something scary, the more I realize it is hopeless and start to cry.He went back to his room to embrace and I go feeling more exhausted and with a throbbing headache go back to my heating pad and ice pack and fume. Second time was five minutes with an intensity of 2 Sunday 11/16 wage out for breakfast at flutter House before going to church. There are no expectations on Sunday, except for him to accompany me to breakfast and church, which he does willingly without incident. He is evermore good on Sundays, which makes me believe he knows what he is doing. We come home, film the paper, and have a nice meal around 300, he goes in his room and I either go visiting or have visitors and the day is tranquillity. Its am azing.Monday.. 11/17 730-752 a. M. get-go my week off, come downstairs altogether to find all the tiffin meat out on the counter, the mayonnaise left open and out on the counter with several dishes, crumbs everywhere and the coffee machine was left on all night. From the kitchen I yell, Michael, get in here now No response from him. I yell again, Michael get up and get in here right now He yells back, What did I do now? Cant you just leave me the alone? To which really start screaming, Cant I just have one day, just one (forgetting that I had yesterday), what the heck is unlawful with you, are you trying to drive me crazy? I start position stuff away and throwing stuff away, deliberately making as much noise as possible because am now waist thickset in a tantrum. Am throwing my hands up scream at how stupid he is and that he doesnt care about money or how hard I endure, that he just is passive aggressive because he is sick and has no one else to take it out on. I could ac tually record these tantrums and just hit play because the words are evermore the same when am at a level (intensity) 3. He starts telling me to go myself and in turn become louder and more insulting myself.The only reason this tantrum ends is because I have to get ready for work and want to get out of the house and away from him as lively as possible. Still, I managed to rant for twenty-two minutes before at long last crying and breaking down. Intensity-3, Minutes 22 Tuesday 11/18 Everything was quiet today. Michael got up and we both apologized to each other about last night. afterwards a really bad tantrum both of us realize that things have gotten out of intro and both of us try harder to get along. Zero tantrums today.